As
a society today, we are as fake as we can get. Plastered smiles when
greeting people you do not like, is not considered fake, but good
social etiquette. Your parents encourage you to put on an act while
meeting elders who they may think little of.
Your peers want you to
give them compliments for achievements that you couldn’t care less
about. Your partner wants you to always be supportive of their
undertakings. Your children need to be mock scolded so that they
learn what is socially acceptable.
It’s
a vicious circle where you are expected to act as the person in front
of you desires, without ever once being able to express your own
self. In fact, often you are so engrossed in playing all these
different roles, that you yourself are unaware of who the authentic
you is!
Today’s
Call to Action
Make
an effort to truly understand what part is the authentic you and what
is the socially acceptably you facade that you project. Get out a
paper and pencil. Here are a few questions that you need to sit down
and answer honestly. Think of it as getting to know a new best
friend.
Make
a list of seven things you would like to do today, if you had no
commitments. Make it as simple as possible. Even stuff like going
shopping for clothes, wanting to sleep in late, eating an ice cream,
or simply going to see a movie, can go onto the list. However you
must have seven different activities mentioned.
Now
make a list of things that you would like to experience. Make them as
exaggerated as possible. Stuff that can make the list may include
taking a world tour, learning 10 languages, taking a month off to
cycle through the state, going white water rafting or anything else
that you deem exciting. There is no maximum limit to this list but it
should have at least seven things on it.
Once
you are done compare the two lists. Find out what it is that you
enjoy. Things that you are passionate about. This will help you
figure out the things that make you happy, not society, but you. Now
work towards including these things that you are passionate about in
your life. Be true to yourself and make your self talk encouraging.
Affirmation
– I
am true to myself. I nurture my connection to my authentic, higher
self with my thoughts, words and actions. I stand in my full power.
I
wish you an
authentic and happy life.
Love
and light, always
Cashmere